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Chinese Bars, Karaoke in China, Nightlife in China

chinese_etiquette.gifIf you are traveling to China, living in China, have friends or family who just moved to China, or are going to the Beijing Olympics in 2008, you will need to brush up on your Chinese Etiquette. Here you can find the most comprehensive guide by an expatriate who has lived in China for over two years. Here you can learn what nightlife entails in China: bars in China, Chinese karaoke and more.

Bar Scene / Nightlife
    Visiting China Travel Tips Advice Robert Thompson
  • The bar scene in China is lively and loud. If you are doing business, expect that only men will go out to drink.
  • Younger generations play drinking games like “liar’s dice” or guessing games that expedite the drinking process. It is all about having a good time.
  • Chinese bars have shows, comedians, short plays, lots of live singing, and the essential loud distorted Chinese PA system. The point is, if you are used to going to Bob’s Tavern where it’s all low-key, get ready for something different.
  • When you want to call a waiter over, use the terms “fu wu yuan” (pron. “foo-wu-yen”) or for a female “xiao gunia” (pron. “shaw goo-nya”). Never use the term “xiao jie” (”xiao” starts with “sh” and rhythms with “wow”, then “jee-yah”, so “xiao jee-yah”), as it is condescending and dated. You would be surprised at how many books still teach that “xiao jie” is appropriate.
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Chinese Drinking Etiquette: Beer, Tea Etiquette, Bottled Water, Hard Liquor

chinese_etiquette.gifThis article is about Chinese drinking etiquette. Depending on what you are drinking, the drinking rules change. Learn about how different beverages have different etiquette.

Alcohol

Drinking in ChinaIf you are at a bar, don’t be shy about saying that you don’t want to drink anymore. The Chinese people I have met can hold their liquor (most of the time). Don’t feel the need to keep up.

Unlike Europeans (and a select few in-the-know Americans), in China, looking someone in the eye when you toast is not imperative. It actually never happens. Don’t be offended, or wait for them to look you in the eye.

Bai Jiu Chinese Hard Liquor“Bai jiu” (pronounced “by-joe”) tastes like vodka. Be sure not to sniff it before you drink or you might gag. I think it is made from fermented rice. I whole-heartedly say it tastes like manure. And you’ll know when you’re drinking bai jiu when they bust out the clear bottle with the red cap. You can say, “Wo bu hui he jiu” (”wo boo hway huh joe”), that means “I don’t drink,” but it probably won’t work and they’ll pour you a glass anyway. Good luck.

Don’t worry about what the books say, “gan bei” does not mean you have to finish your drink (despite the literal translation of “dry cup”). Just take a sip and put your cup down.

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Chinese Dining Etiquette: Eating, Dining, How to Use Chopsticks (Proper Use), Eating Bones, General Overview

chinese_etiquette.gifThis artlcle focuses on the general aspects of eating in China. Read a detailed article on important table etiquette here.

Background on Dining

Meals are almost always communal. Chinese people see it as an opportunity to get together, socialize, trade stories, and “slowly eat”. Having a good time is always the goal – I don’t think I have ever been at a dinner table where there were bad vibes. Meals are also a popular way to network. I imagine a lot of business deals and contracts have been settled at the dinner table. Overall, it is a personal, lively, and loud experience.

Dining Etiquette in ChinaIn Mainland China, dishes of food and soups are ordered, placed around the table, and everyone eats from every dish. Sometimes there are serving spoons, but most of the time there will not be. This means that everyone will take food from Dish A, place it in their bowl, eat it, then repeat. If this disgusts you, re-think your trip. All I can say is, “when in Rome…”

Meals are scheduled on a more consistent basis in China. There are three meals a day, 8-9am, 12pm and 6pm (and sometimes the late-night BBQ run). Farmers eat twice a day, 10am and 4pm, so they can tend to the fields and animals. I rarely see Chinese people eat between meals (read, snacking) unless it means eating a pear, apple, etc. Learn to appreciate these meal times. You will undoubtedly feel like you’re eating too much food at first, but you’ll probably lose weight by the end of your trip.

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Chinese Etiquette: Key Concepts, Being Polite, Cultural Differences

chinese_etiquette.gifIf you are traveling to China, living in China, have friends or family who just moved to China, or are going to the Beijing Olympics in 2008, here you can brush up on your Chinese etiquette (or better yet, send them the link!).

This a comprehensive guide written by an expatriate who has lived in China for over two years, complete with pictures, videos, “Insider Tips” (things you will never see in any book), and translations. Most important, it is current information from someone who learned by living it.

First and Foremost / Key Concepts to Understand Chinese Culture
  • Relationships are deeply valued in Chinese culture. Guanxi or ‘relationship’ is an idea that is fundamental throughout society. Having friends, family, and business contacts to help you is very important.
  • Face, or mianxi, losing face, saving face, and giving face are important concepts that should be taken into serious consideration at all times. An quick example of losing face would be to lose your temper in public.
  • Being polite and courteous, or li. Chinese believe that proper etiquette preserves face.
  • Keqi literally means, “guest” and “behavior”. It is most closely linked to being modest and humble. You’ll often times people says, “Bie keqi” (pron. “bee-ah kuh-chee”) which means “You’re so polite”, or “You needn’t be so polite.”
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